School is back in session and the afterschool whirlwind of activity has begun. How does an active kid complete required homework, participate in afterschool activities, AND get 9-11 hours of sleep a night??
Here are some tips for setting up a homework routine that is effective and efficient.
Note: your child should be assigned no more than 10 minutes per grade level of homework (besides free reading). For example, it is reasonable for a third grader to be assigned 30 minutes of homework (3 x 10) and a sixth grader to be assigned a full hour of homework (6 x 10). If your child is unable to complete their homework in a reasonable amount of time, discuss it with their teacher.
If you find yourself in need of additional support, do not hesitate to reach out to us at The Tutoring Center!!
Many parents of struggling readers share that their children refuse to participate or argue when it comes to reading. In my experience this happens when children are not confident in their reading and do not feel successful.
When I work with struggling readers, I talk about the logic behind the written word and explain that communication is a form of dialogue. According to Britannica, communication is the exchange of information between individuals through a common set of symbols.
Reading is a form of communication where the author is the speaker, and the reader is the listener. When individuals truly engage while reading, the process is like listening to a story. As a reader I must be fully present and engaged to listen well to the author and as the writer I have to be clear in my thoughts so as to engage my reader. It is ebb and flow – give and take. No one likes to listen to someone who talks over their head. In the same way children do not enjoy stories that they cannot understand because they have limited vocabulary or difficulty decoding the words.
Give your children a reason to read. Write notes to your child. Encourage your child to write letters. Play games where you look for words on the cereal box, the macaroni and cheese instructions, or the signs going to and from the swimming pool. There are words literally everywhere and when encouraged to be intentional, kids will find them.
When you have a struggling reader, it is important to look for ways to make reading fun and engaging. Visit your local library and check out some fun comic books or magazines in your child's interest level. Consider subscribing to a few of your own. As a child, I looked forward to going to our local library to check out the Cricket Magazine and Highlights Magazine. Oftentimes the doctor's office or the dentist’s office will have these kinds of magazines. They are not a pricey investment and very worthwhile to have available for your child's reading enjoyment. Encourage aunts and uncles, grandparents, or anyone who gives your child Christmas gifts or birthday gifts to purchase them a subscription to a worthwhile children's literary magazine.
Another activity that children greatly enjoy is reading their own book. I wrote little stories for my children whenever I could – simple stories with simple words talking about the kids, their toys and their adventures. Your children will love to read about themselves and the adventures of their toys. Be creative when you engage with literacy your children will also engage.
If you search carefully on the internet, you will find several fun and engaging reading channels such as:
KidTimeStoryTime https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEPsNDUhUm-7yZhUjQQNqwQ .
Toadstools and FairyDust https://www.youtube.com/@ToadstoolsandFairyDust
Vooks Narated Story Books https://www.youtube.com/@VooksStorybooks
Channels such as these allow children to engage in reading while enjoying a fun story.
Reading by themselves, reading alongside others, being read to or intentionally engaging in audio books are all forms of reading! Our kids need to read to become solid readers. When our children avoid the activity of reading, we must do everything possible to reverse the trend. Let’s give kids the opportunity and reason to Drop Everything And Read to make reading the choice rather than a chore.
CAUTION: I have had many students share that they stopped enjoying reading when it became an assignment. Having to read for points and/or being told what they could and could not read made them lose the enjoyment of reading.
School’s out for summer! The birds are singing, the bees are buzzing, the days are longer, and the well-established routine of the school year has gone out the window.
In the summer, routine often falls by the wayside. Children wake up with the sun, which often comes up very early, and go to sleep with the sun, which often sets very late. There are likely no clear-cut mealtimes between activities, and there may not even be clear-cut activities to do each day. What's a family to do?
It’s certainly easier to follow an established schedule than it is to create that schedule for ourselves, and a routine of some sort creates order that is important to everyone. It's important to keep a routine during stressful times and it's essential for families to follow routine to maintain order. Throughout the school year, we followed the school routine by getting up at a certain time, eating lunch at a certain time, and getting home at a certain time.
I suggest creating and following a new routine. It is easier said than done. All routines should be consistent and predictable. They should be discussed and decided upon with your children. Research has consistently shown that routines can play an important role in mental health to aid people with stress management and anxiety and help us maintain good daily habits. Setting a routine and expectation for behavior can help you and your child have a smoother more productive experience together for the summer.
To add to the routine, I also suggest creating a priority list of activities to make sure that things on every child's bucket list can be accomplished during the summer. These activities can vary and do not always require money but may take some of your time.
Here are a couple of links that you might find helpful: https://printableparents.com/how-to-create-a-summer-routine-for-kids-free-printable/ https://simply-well-balanced.com/free-printable-summer-schedules-kids/
As a mom of a recent high school graduate, I am reminded that we only get 8-10 summers to spend having fun with our school aged children. Take advantage of the fun-filled free time you may have with them and create wonderful memories that you will all treasure forever.
Summer holidays are soon upon us! Months of hard work will culminate in 10+ weeks of relaxation! A well-earned break is something that everyone looks forward to, but on the other side is something called SUMMER SLIDE!
There are numerous studies that support the premise that students lose ground over the summer unless they engage in active learning activities several times a week.
But have no fear – active learning does not always mean seat work or summer school. Active learning includes any and all activities that engage the brain in mental problem-solving!
Here are some ideas you can implement to keep your children (and yourself) learning throughout the summer!
Difficulty with attention and focus are common concerns that bring families to The Tutoring Center.
Kids are busy and that is to be expected. They are full of both energy and emotion. Childhood is a time for imagination, fun, and play. Sitting in a classroom is not the most natural of environments and yet, most children, age 6-18 spend at least 30 hours per week doing just that.
Many students struggle to maintain attention and focus at school and at home. When does this struggle cross the line and become an indicator of a more?
Characteristics of Focus/Attention Issues
□Overlooks or misses details, makes careless mistakes in schoolwork, at work, or during other activities
□Has problems sustaining attention in tasks or play, including conversations, lectures, or lengthy reading
□Does not seem to listen when spoken to directly
□Does not follow through on instructions and fails to finish schoolwork, chores, or duties in the workplace or starts tasks but quickly loses focus and gets easily sidetracked
□Has problems organizing tasks and activities, such as what to do in sequence, keeping materials and belongings in order, has messy work and poor time management, and fails to meet deadlines
□Avoids or dislikes tasks that require sustained mental effort, such as schoolwork or homework, or for teens and older adults, preparing reports, completing forms or reviewing lengthy papers
□Loses things necessary for tasks or activities, such as school supplies, pencils, books, tools, wallets, keys, paperwork, eyeglasses, and cell phones
□Is easily distracted by unrelated thoughts or stimuli
□Is forgetful in daily activities, such as chores, errands, returning calls, and keeping appointments
Characteristics of Hyperactivity-Impulsivity
□ Fidgets and squirms in their seats
□ Leaves their seats in situations when staying seated is expected, such as in the classroom or in the office
□ Runs or dashes around or climbs in situations where it is inappropriate or, in teens and adults, often feel restless
□ Is unable to play or engages in hobbies quietly
□ Is constantly in motion or “on the go,” or acts as if “driven by a motor”
□ Talks nonstop
□ Blurts out an answer before a question has been completed, finishes other people’s sentences, or speaks without waiting for a turn in conversation
□ Has trouble waiting his or her turn
□ Interrupts or intrudes on others, for example in conversations, games, or activities
National Institute of Mental Health https://www.nimh.nih.gov
It is normal to have some inattention, unfocused motor activity and impulsivity, but for people where these symptoms:
-are more severe; -occur more often; -interfere with or reduce the quality of how they function socially, at school, or in a job THERE IS HELP!
Reach out for more information and a no-obligation consultation.
For more information reach out to Kelley Phipps at firstname.lastname@example.org
A few years ago, a good teacher friend of mine posted a link to this article by Brett Berry on her Facebook page. Now, this friend historically has not been a fan of math, but she took some required math courses this summer and came back with an excitement that I had not seen in her before. So, when she posted this article, it became a must read for me.
You see, when someone comes to us with math concerns, 99% of the time his/her difficulties stem from not being able to connect the numeric algorithm (symbols) with the mathematical concepts the symbols represent. I often hear, “I know what they (the teacher/ textbook) want, but I don’t understand what they are doing on paper.” Or “I get it, but I just don’t get math.” Parents are confused because their child can add and multiply but can’t memorize their math facts.
Understanding math concepts is really learning about life. Time and experience leave us with lessons that last a lifetime. This is hard to explain with words on a paper, but easier to show and to conceptualize. Algorithms (2+2 = 4; 4 x 5 = 20) are memorized but cannot be experienced without tying them to LIFE concepts.
That is why student encounter so many story or word problems.
Johnny has two apples and Sue has two more.
How many apples do they have all together?
Memorizing facts can produce fast results! And our society likes fast…BUT memorizing does not produce lasting results. Memorize it for the test and forget it. Historically, in our school system we want results fast…therefore, after an introduction to number sense in kindergarten and a little in 1st grade…we begin to memorize. And we have bred a society that largely “doesn’t get math” …because to truly understand math, one must EXPERIENCE it.
Chances are good that if I asked 10 random people their opinion on algebra, more than half would not have positive things to say. Yet, algebra is life. Have they not experienced life? More likely, they have not experienced MATH enough to tie it to algebraic concepts. Ideally, this would happen at a young age and continue throughout our school years. In the end, the majority of individuals would walk away with not only an understanding of the concepts but also the ability to knowingly put them into use.
If I gave you a choice of learning through experience that would provide life-lasting results versus learning through memorization which would provide quick but limited long-term results, which would you choose? Which is more cost effective? Which is more time effective in the long run?
I ask these rhetorical questions to make a point…. concept based learning is at the root of common core math. For those of us who have only experienced algorithmic mathematics…. formulas and memorization…. learning conceptually seems so laborious! But what ethical engineer would be stingy on time and materials when building a foundation in an earthquake-prone area? He would never get insurance…he would be asking for disaster.
Do we build our educational houses on ROCK or SAND? A LIFE concept is rock and life lasting, while sand is fluid - moving wherever the wind or waters carry it. It takes a little longer at first (and for kids that are introduced at an older age it seems crazy to the outside) but once a solid foundation is laid, algorithms make sense, and math becomes our friend and constant instead something to be feared and avoided.
Thank you to CenterPoint Learning Solutions for sharing the content of this article.
Christmas break has begun for many of our area school districts, plus we are gearing up for the busiest (and for many the most stressful) time in our family calendars. This means kids (and parents) have just encountered a MAJOR CHANGE of schedule and routine -
Remember, the best defense is a good offense! Be aware and be prepared. Watch for signs of potential meltdowns and do your best to use all your personal tools NOT to join in the emotions. Parents (and grandparents) be prepared to model emotional regulation to help little (and sometimes not so little) children to move through this change and enjoy the holiday!!
When I work with students, we always have the discussion based on, "Why do we read? Who invented written words anyway?"
Everyone remembers playing the child’s game of TELEPHONE – where a group of individuals line up and the first person whispers a message to the next person and the message is subsequently passed down the line. At the end, the last person repeats the message that was shared. Very seldom is the final message the same as the original. THIS IS WHY WE HAVE WRITTEN LANGUAGE.
Human thought is so unique that we want to preserve it...want to share it with others unadulterated and retain originality. The only way to do so is to write it down. Symbols were created to represent the sounds that we speak. Letters are combined to make even more sounds. These combinations when placed on paper represent the REAL THINGS....IDEAS.... THOUGHTS...and EMOTIONS of another individual. It is our responsibility to learn to decipher this code and retain the meaning behind the words."
This explanation helps my students to get excited about the activity of reading that has been elusive to them. After internalizing the tools for FOCUS and correcting misperceptions in the formation and sequence of the alphabet, they are empowered to use these symbols to represent the meaning g behind the written word.
Did you know that EVERY student that comes to The Tutoring Center is screened for Dyslexia and/or other hidden learning struggles??
The following was shared on The Dyslexia Classroom Facebook page.
"This image is a powerful reminder that what you see isn't the whole picture. This is especially true for our students with dyslexia.
"But they are doing so well!"
...[older students] have developed amazing coping skills, are getting good grades, and are considered on grade level...but these successes don't tell the whole story.
While their struggle may not always be visible to us, students with dyslexia often: